Archive for March, 2018

FEAST OF ST. JOSEPH 3.19.18

Monday, March 19th, 2018

I have started at least three messages and then got distracted and I lost them some how. Today, I am staying here in the parish center as I have some interviews for First Communion around 4pm and then the 5:30pm and then my cousins from New York are going to pick me up and we’ll go out to dinner.

But since last I wrote on March 7th, I have been busy. I did hear confession that night and was busy but I loved it. I came home and went right to bed as I had the 8am Mass on Thursday and I have discovered that I need to get up at 6am to be ready for getting dressed and over to the parish center so I am breathing normally by the 8am Mass. After Mass, I worked in the office because Joe Stoutz and his new wife, Mary were coming by to pick me up for lunch. It turned out that Fr. John Bohrer came down with them; and Joe’s son, Tim (who lives here in DC) joined us at Clyde’s for lunch. We has a great time and John (in honor of my sister Marie) picked up the tab. That’s a story I told at her funeral Mass. I had a few more interviews and again I went to bed early.

On Friday, March 9th (the feast of St. Frances of Rome) I preached about her at the 8am and at the 5:30pm Mass. She was my Mom’s patron saint. I went out to lunch with the Petrones and we had a lot of laughs.

On Saturday, the 10th, Fr. Matthew Carroll, O.P. came to visit me at the rectory. He was assigned here in 2009, while a seminarian to help with RCIA. He was delightful and I found out that he was the nephew of Mary Carroll Pendergraph Smith, a dear friend from St. Camillus days. He was in town for the deaconate ordinations at the Shrine and came by around 3pm. He is now stationed in New York at a high school. We had a wonderful “catch up” time together.  I went to bed early because this was the night we lose an hour.

I woke up on Sunday and it was still dark at 7am. They tell me that it will change. I had the 10:30am Mass in the gym. I don’t think I told you that the Cardinal asked all the priests of the diocese to preach on Amoris Laetitia, Pope Francis’ exhortation after the synods that were held in 2014 and 2015. He asked us to use the A year readings and I have to admit they fit well with my homilies at the  5:30pm Masses on Saturday, March 3rd and Sunday, March 4th. It was the woman at the well – one of my favorite Gospels. At the gym Mass, the reading was the man born blind and again, it fit well with my homily about the Pope’s letter to encourage priests, bishops, and laity to “accompany” families that may be experiencing problems. It is a wonderful letter and very “readable”.

I slept in on Monday because it was soooo cold. I came over for the 5 :30pm Mass and then returned home quickly and went to bed.

I had a funeral on Tuesday. Please keep Sissi and her family in your prayers. She lived in the parish all her life and went to the school. Then she lived a very exciting life (which I heard about from her sister’s reflection) in Disney World and the city government. She had a home in Delaware and that is where she died. But she wanted to come home to SBS. There must have been 300 people here. I didn’t feel up to going out so I missed the funereal luncheon but I hear it was great.  I met with someone for confessions and then heard the School of Religion confessions.

Although Wednesday, the 14th was mi Dia de libre, I did come over at 8:30 and heard school confessions till 11:30. Then the ladies and I went out. When I came home, I ate and went to bed. I had planned to hear the evening confessions but it was so cold outside that all I wanted to do was get in a warm bed and sleep.

Thursday, I had the 8am Mass and then we heard more school confessions for a couple of hours. I met someone in my office. and then had some interviews. I went home and worked on the Christmas cards and went to bed early.

I’ve been having such a hard time getting my breathing back to normal; I asked Joan to bring me the cart to the rectory and I rode over; said the 11am Mass and rode back to the rectory.

On Saturday, I wasn’t scheduled for anything and I stayed in the suite all morning. It was NOT my usual St. Patrick’s Day celebration. I was planning to attend a retreat for special needs families but Fr. Bill was doing it and he also had confessions; so I took the confessions. My favorite thing to do. You meet people as they are trying to do better.

Sunday, the 18th, I had the 7:30am Mass and the 12:30PM Mass. The Gospel was Lazarus. Again, it was so appropriate to Amoris Laetitia. I hope lots of people will read it. Fr. Bill told me and I told them, that we’d have nice copies for them after Easter. Again it was  cold and I was glad to get home. I made macaroni and cheese.

Today, I had the 11am Mass and I will have the 5:30pm. I love St. Joseph and I prayed for all the wonderful Josephs that God has put in my life. After Mass, I went to the senior group for a combined St. Patrick and St. Joseph celebration. I wasn’t feeling well so I came home early. I had a very nice boy, Jack to interview and as my second had to cancel, I am finishing up this message before I go up for the 5:30pm Mass. I’m looking forward to being with my cousins. I’ll write about that next time.

Since I’ve been staying in because of the cold, I have used the phone a lot. I was glad to “catch up” on family and friends. Please keep Fr. Beattie and Betty Neary in your prayers. Also, by chance I called Maggie and it’s good I did she left this morning with JoAnn to spend 5 days in Puerto Rico. She gets it from my mother!

Don’t give up on the Christmas Cards. They should be there around Easter. Keep me in your prayers and know that you are in mine.

WEDNESDAY OF THE THIRD WEEK OF LENT, 3.7.18

Wednesday, March 7th, 2018

Hello again,

Since last I wrote, a lot has gone on. On Wednesday, Feb 21st, after I met with Lila, she dropped me off at O’Boyle and I visited with Tom Kane and other old friends there. Then Tim drove T and me to Annapolis, where we met the Petrones for Italian food. I had a great time and was ready for bed.

On Thursday, the 22nd, I had the 8 and the 11AM masses; I came over for lunch and then I called Regina Housel. She wasn’t home but I left a message. It was her birthday. Then I took a nap as Wednesday was a busy day. Had supper and went to bed.

Slept in on Friday and had the 11am Mass. I went to bed because it was cold.

Saturday, we had Confirmation. Bishop Dorsonville did it and was good. I joined them for lunch and didn’t go to the second service. I was really tired.

Sunday, the 25th, I had the 7:30AM Mass and then met a young boy for his First Communion interview. His family couldn’t get him to the up-coming interviews because we stop at 5pm. He was great and is ready. Pray for Max. Then at 2:30, I met part of the McGreevy clan, who had come for Baptisms. I was able to stay in my scooter and they all moved around. Please remember in your prayers: Ethan, Roman, Grace, and Victoria. We had a little party afterwards in our big room and it was great to “catch up” on all the family.  I went to bed early.

I stayed in my suite till the afternoon on Monday. I only had the 5:30pm Mass. I’ve been working on my Christmas cards (NO, they are from 2017) but it has been fun to re-read the letters people sent to me and updated me on their families. I love that!!

On Tuesday, the 27th, I slept in and then I had the 11am Mass and a priest came to visit me. I stayed in the rectory the rest of the day,  had supper and then to bed.

On Wednesday, Fr. Foley dropped me at the seminary and I attended a morning of recollection for the priests. John Enzler gave it and it was excellent and just what I needed. The Petrones picked me up and took me to Wheaton and I got my hair cut and beard trimmed. We went to lunch and they brought me home. I worked on my cards.

Thursday and Friday, I just said Mass and stayed near the rectory.

On Saturday, March, I had the 5:30pm Mass. I was suppose to have a baptism but the storm delayed the planes and the grandparents couldn’t get her from Florida. It was cold in the afternoon, but Fr. Foley drove me over to see Fr. Beattie. He is at Our Lady of Lourdes’ rectory. He was in intensive care at Georgetown Hospital but he wanted to come home. I was very grateful to get to see him. He is in no pain but his heart can not be repaired. He was able to talk and told many funny stories of our days together. As we left, Fr. Foley, “Nothing wrong with that mind”.  We prayed with him and he gave us his blessing.  It was very windy but the church was full for the evening Mass.  I came home and went to bed because the 4th is Marie’s birthday.

On Sunday, I was picked up and taken to Ft. Lincoln where I met 5 of Marie’s children, two of her grandchildren, Maggie and Jo Ann and two of her daughters-in-law. They had had a marker made and installed and we blessed it and prayed (and sent off some balloons). Then we went to the Alamo (Mexican restaurant in Riverdale) and had a great meal. Lots of laughs and stories. Then I had the 5:30pm Mass. And watched the Oscars but fell asleep.

On Monday, we began the interviews for First Communions and I had 8 of them. They were great. I also had the 8am and the 5:30pm Masses. then I Ubered out to Leisure World and picked up Barbara. Then we Urbered to Mama Lucia’s to meet Barry Fitz for supper. Kevin Shearer, who was a grade school boy at Camillus, then a student at GC and is now a teacher at Mt. St. Joe’s. He has  been ill and it was great to see him so improved. We all had a great time.

Yesterday I had the 11am Mass and then my first Tuesdays with Maury in over a month. We talked about Lent and had a great time. I had some appointments in the office and then three interviews. Had supper with the guys and went to bed early.

Today is mi dia de libre (my DAY OFF). I was planning to go to the meeting and lunch for retired priests, but the weather is cold and damp and I decided just to stay in my suite, try to get this written, do some more Christmas cards, have supper and then do to the church for the Light is On for You (Lenten confessions). I’ll probably go to bed early as I have the 8am Mass on Thursday.

Hope you are having a good Lent, I am.